I think it's also important that you know the major I entered that site. Although, I am not impressed with the site, as it is. On a daily basis, I get lots of silly and nasty messages and flirts from men there. Sometimes I delete their messages even without opening to know what they had to say. I’m looking for a respectful man who is genuine, intelligent and has a good sense of humor. Being genuine is very important for me. An ideal long-term relationship is easy to maintain, involves lively discussions, engages our friends and family around us, contains laughter and a mutual pursuit of our passions. I'm unique in that I will not waste time with "shallow" interactions. I'm only open to meaningful, honest, and exclusive relationships with a like minded man. I'm not concerned with having tons of men. A good kind hearted man is all I need. Sandra